Holden Beach, NC

 

For the second year in a row, our friends and we have rented a house on Holden Beach, NC. Until last year we had never been to this beach before. Our friends have been going there for over forty years and introduced us to the area. We went during the first week in October these past two years and both times the weather was perfect. It was warm enough to sun and swim during the day and cool enough to don a sweatshirt in the evening. There was low humidity, beautiful sunrises and sunsets, no crowds, and plenty of relaxation.

Holden Beach is a strip of island accessible by a bridge with a waterway between it and the mainland. It is one, straight road lined on both sides by houses. There are no hotels or high rises there. You will see a few beachy type business before the access bridge, but otherwise it is a quiet place. Myrtle beach is to the south and Wilmington is to the north. Overall, we like the quietness of Holden Beach for relaxing. The beachfront houses are only yards away from the sand so there is not a long walk to the beach. Almost all of the houses have large, covered decks where you can sit and watch the water under beautifully painted skies. Each morning we spotted dolphins and many fishing birds making nosedives into the water for food. Holden beach is also the only place where you can find fossilized sea biscuits. (You can read about them here) We found some beautiful, intact biscuits last year during a rain storm. We only found a couple more this year but I am always excited to find one. Shell collecting was minimal because most shells were broken to pieces by the waves. The beach is long enough that you can walk miles. Last year Steve and I walked three miles up to the pier and back. 

We drove to Shallotte, Southport, and Calabash for a little shopping and dinners out. Another day we drove to Wilmington for some antiquing and lunch. We found a very nice little antique shop in Shallotte called Miss Minnie's antiques. She had things displayed beautifully and it was fun to browse. There are a couple of ice cream shops and a Food Lion nearby. We also had a pizza delivered one evening which we ate on the deck. Shallotte is only twenty minutes or so away from the beach and there are stores like Hobby Lobby and Walmart if desired.

Our friend Dan fished every day. He threw back all but one fish. The one he kept was a flounder. He filleted and broiled it for dinner and all six of us had a small piece. it was the best flounder I have ever tasted. Flounder are interesting, flat shaped fish with a white underside and a sand colored upper side. Their eyes are both on the top side which makes their face look a little goofy. It reminds me of how a child might draw a fish's face.  

It was a good vacation, especially for Steve, to relax and do nothing much. My favorite part was our evening walks on the beach where we watched the sun set. Each evening it lowered slowly until it finally touched the horizon in a fiery red ball.

There is a man who comes each year and builds sand pyramids. Steve took this photo just as the sun was setting behind them.

The Autumn Song

 We have been away to the beach for a last taste of summer. Autumn greeted us upon our return! I have photos and thoughts to sift through from the trip. For now, I will share a photo that Steve took at a bar where we had lunch. The sun was shining on us from the window. I am beginning to feel the history behind those lines and wrinkles.

                                            The Autumn Song by Sarah Sparks

Weathering the Storms

 

A view of the North Carolina mountains taken in the highlands when our daughter lived in Boone, NC.

We were spared the bulk of the wrath of Helene last Friday. She dumped unimaginable amounts of rain here and caused a couple of local tornadoes and many power outages. However, our neighbors to the southwest, in western North Carolina, West Virginia, and Tennessee, and Georgia fared so much worse. 

It rained for a week prior to the arrival of Helene in our southern states. I can't recall so many days of rain like we had. We were thankful for the water after a summer of drought. But the hurricane was too much, too fast onto ground that was already saturated. If you have ever visited Asheville, Blowing Rock, or any of the western North Carolina/West Virginia/Tennessee mountain areas you can see by the geography why such flooding occurred. The mountains are tall and close and the hollows and valleys are deep. It is a beautifully rugged landscape, very lush and green. The contrast of mountains to hollows is its beauty. 

Our neighbor's suffering is very much on our minds. Many local organizations and businesses are collecting supplies and funds to rush into those hard hit areas. There are many opportunities to give support and I appreciate all the ways these organizations make it easy for people like us to chip in and help out. Food Lion supermarkets are matching all donations up to one million dollars. I feel certain they will make that goal and have two million dollars to send for disaster relief. Every day my Facebook feed is filled with missing persons photos from families looking for loved ones who have not yet been found. It is truly heartbreaking and so we pray. 

Post Script: I stopped in our local Food Lion supermarket today and asked the cashier about making a donation for hurricane victims. She said she did not know anything about the fund drive. She mentioned that another customer asked the same question. I rechecked Food Lion's Facebook page and the announcement is still there. I don't think it is spam. It may be only Food Lions in a particular area are having the fund drive? I don't know.

 

The Commingling of Summer and Fall

 

It has rained so much and so steadily these past six days that I can only get as far as the screened porch to be outside for any amount of time. The rains couldn't come soon enough after the drought this summer. We lost a couple of established shrubs, a few perennials, and a tree from the drought. For this reason, I am happy to sit on the porch, listen to the rain, and watch everything turn green again.

In spite of the humid, tropical rain, the calendar says it is autumn. It's confounding because we have the air conditioner running again in order to keep the humidity down. The cool, fall weather we experienced two weeks ago is only a memory. I have learned that in the south, the delineation of summer and fall are not crisp and clear like the change up north. Summer and fall commingle for a long time here. 

My wall planter still looks happy and healthy. I don't have the heart to toss it on the compost pile in order to replace it with a fall plant. I decided to let it be and use some other pots for fall plantings. Some pots will sing, "Summer!" while others sing, "Fall!". My friend mixes artificial fall mums with other live grasses in her outdoor planters for fall. She has trouble with deer pulling up her mums and she said this solution works well. I have seen her arrangements on her front porch and they always look very nice. Driving by, one would never guess that they were artificial flowers. I was shopping with her recently at Hobby Lobby and she convinced me to give the artificial mums a try. They were forty percent off and they were nice looking. When I got home I decided to use them to replace the geraniums that had become leggy out on the screened porch. This porch is right off the kitchen and I see it every day, walking past the door. I must say, I like the splash of color the artificial flowers add there for fall! It makes me happy that the blooms will not fade before Halloween and I can even leave them out until Thanksgiving if I want. I will add some pumpkins to the display and the grandchildren can carve them  next month.

There is much yard work to be done before we can say the gardens are put away for winter. This is the season we should be out there getting it all done. For now, it will have to wait for the rain to pass which, according to the forecast, is still days away. I feel better about the delay by making a list of all the work that needs to be done. This helps me feel a little more in control of it all...even though it's really Mother Nature steering this ship. But one thing is for sure; she does not have control over my screened porch mums!

Fun Little Cookie Press Find

 

I drove Steve to an antique shop in Bedford, VA to look at some cassette tape decks our daughter spotted there a couple of weeks ago. It is funny that tape decks are something we buy in antique shops nowadays. "Back in the day" we shopped at stores dedicated to selling only stereo components. They were high tech stores in their time and people would carefully select components to build a stereo system suited to their needs. We still use all of our stereo components including a turntable for albums. Most of the units have needed to be replaced, one by one, over the years. Steve tried to replace the tape deck a couple of times with ones he found on ebay, etc. They all turned out to be duds. He was happy to have a chance to look at these two in person and test them before he purchased. He went prepared with a little bag of cords and testing gadgets.

Anyway, I browsed while he checked out the tape decks. I spotted the beautiful graphics on the box above in a kitchen display. I have seen these cookie presses before but never this deluxe version. All the attachments were there including the original manual and recipe booklet! It was priced at only $8.00 so I bought it.

I bake cookies a lot. I have some tried and true favorites like chocolate chip, oatmeal, molasses, New York Black and Whites, and pizzelles. Outside of those, it is fun to try new recipes. We noticed that the recipe booklet in this set spells cookie with a 'y', 'cooky'. These little butter cookie gems are popular in Italian bakery cookie trays. I cannot wait to test it! If they turn out well I will take them to my rug hooking group next Tuesday. : )

Nags Head, NC

 

 This year my daughter took each of her three children on their own, personal getaways. Her eldest came with us on our girls' Vermont ice skating holiday in February. Then she took her middle son to New York City for a fun-filled visit. Lastly, her youngest son chose to have a beach holiday. They asked if anyone else in the family would like to go along and I raised my hand. 

We booked rooms at First Colony Inn in Nags Head, NC. The inn was built in 1932 and is a registered historic landmark. I drove down to our daughter's home in North Carolina on Sunday morning and from there, we drove together to Nags Head. We had adjoining rooms on the first floor. We enjoyed everything this historic inn had to offer. The architecture, the gardens, the sparkling in-ground pool, the easy beach access, the friendly staff, and the breakfasts and social hour were all wonderful. The inn also provides beach chairs and an umbrella. We spent two glorious days relaxing at the ocean's edge. We built sand castles, played in the waves, swam in the pool, and ate dinners out. We also played miniature golf one evening at a really fun course called "Mutiny Bay", which is right across the road. The only thing that we didn't like at the inn was the musty smell in my bedroom and bath. As long as I kept the A/C turned up, it wasn't too bad in the room. But it was hard not to notice the damp smell in the bathroom. Given the age of the structure and the level of humidity in this climate, I understood the reason. This would not prevent me from staying here again. Although I might try a second floor room the next time. There are too many plusses about the inn that outweigh this one negative.

We prefer to avoid the southern beaches in the high heat of summer. September and October are my favorite months to visit the beach down here. For this trip, we had daytime temperatures in the mid to upper seventies and the ocean water was refreshing but not frigid. The water felt about the same temperature as the air.

It is a rare opportunity for me to have one-on-one time with any of our daughters these days. I cherished every moment of our time away. I loved digging in the sand with my grandson. My own inner child was at play when I knelt in the sand and ran in the waves. It was so easy to forget the problems of day-to-day life in this environment. Wednesday rolled around too soon and it was time to drive home. There are many things to do on the Outer Banks and we decided that another visit will be in order one day.

The inn holds a social hour every afternoon with a snack buffet and wine. Guests are welcome to mingle in the dining room or take plates out onto the deck or to their rooms.

Mutiny Bay Miniature Golf was a lot of fun. The eighteen hole course takes you up onto the deck of a pirate ship, up and down water features, and around perfectly landscaped greens. They even had water explosions as invisible cannonballs hit the water.

 

 

 

I don't think my grandson minded being doted on. It was his special getaway, so doting was a given!

Hobbies: Preserving and Stitching

 

 Summer lingers long in the mountains of Virginia. Yes, fall knocks at the door with cool nights and lovely days but our garden keeps producing tomatoes and peppers. The peppers, in particular, grow like gangbusters in September. Steve loves his hot peppers and preserving them is his delight. 

Recently, our neighbor gave us a dehydrator he wasn't using. It was a new toy for which we were very grateful! We got to work right away by dehydrating cherry tomatoes and Steve's peppers. The dried tomatoes will come in handy on focaccia or pizzas this winter. As for the peppers, Steve grinds the dehydrated peppers into powders. He sprinkles them on pretty much all of his food. He also loves to give them away to hot-pepper-loving friends. 

The crazy thing is, by the time I purchased the spice jars with sprinkle lids to put the pepper powder into, and replace the tape in the label maker, and buy a new grinder (the old one died), we probably could have purchased all the hot pepper powder in town. However, this way was  much more fun. Hobbies can be                                                                             expensive!                                                                                                                           

My contribution to expenses in the hobby realm was to rent an Airbnb with two friends for three days. We try to do this once or twice a year in order to concentrate on hooking, sewing, or whatever with no interruptions. It is also a lot of fun.

For this trip, we only drove an hour and a half away to Baseye, VA. It is a resort area for skiers and golfers, of which we do neither. But the area has Airbnb's available for not a huge cost. When split three ways, the cost is actually minimal. 

I brought three projects with me to work on. All three have been on my "to do" list for several months. I purchased the poison ivy applique kit last year from Susan Gonzales at a gathering in Maryland. At the time, my arms were broken out in poison ivy and her design made me smile when I saw it. She calls it, "Itchin' To Stitch". The other embroidery was also purchased in Maryland, but at this year's gathering. It is a design by Teresa Miller of Teresa's Primitive Treasures from her and Robin Leuschen's book called "Primitive and Folk Art Fancies". I was able to complete these first two pieces at our getaway. I also  begin my third project which is a cross stitched winter scene. It is still on the hoop while I finish it up at home now. It felt really good to be in a creative zone for three days, especially with friends. We talk and laugh, go out for a meal, eat ice cream, and appreciate how blessed we are to have this time away.

I tacked the 8"x8" poison ivy applique onto a lidded basket from Amazon. I placed this on a table in the bathroom. It is a good place to hide the wipes. ; )

 

The pumpkin flower embroidery is installed on a sliding lid box, also sold at Teresa's Primitive Treasures on Etsy.